The Empathy Gap: The 70% Of Marketing AI Cannot See

21 Nov

Depending on which study you read, around 70 percent of purchase decisions are driven primarily by emotion. The rational brain then backs that decision up with logic, like a helpful but slightly dishonest press officer.

If that is true, then most of your buyer’s decision making is happening in an emotional landscape that AI cannot access.

This is the empathy gap.

AI can:

Analyse huge data sets.
Predict likely outcomes.
Mimic patterns of language associated with emotion.

What it cannot do is care.

It does not know what it feels like to have your job on the line if the campaign does not convert. It does not understand the quiet shame of feeling “behind” your competitors. It does not know the odd cocktail of fear and hope that sits behind a “Book a demo” click.

Yet this emotional reality is where your buyer is deciding whether to trust you, whether to act, and whether to come back.

When you combine that with findings such as:

Emotionally engaged customers are significantly more loyal.
A large proportion of purchase decisions correlate with emotional uplift.
Emotional campaigns outperform purely rational ones on success rates.

You start to see the problem.

AI can quote these stats at you. It cannot feel them with you. It cannot notice the slight flinch in a human nervous system and soften its language accordingly. It will happily push a message that sounds “on brand” but lands as tone deaf in a real human life.

That gap is where conversion goes to die.

The Authenticity Imperative: Consumers Are Detecting And Rejecting AI Content

For a while, AI content sailed under the radar. It was novel, slick, and most people could not quite tell what they were reading.

That era is fading.

As AI content saturates feeds, inboxes, and search results, consumers are getting better at picking up on it. One study found that:

Over half of consumers initially said they preferred AI written articles.
Yet once they suspected content was AI generated, more than half disengaged from it.

This is the authenticity imperative.

In a world where almost every brand is publishing more than ever, audiences are starved not for information, but for something that feels human. Research around authenticity consistently shows:

The majority of people say brand authenticity matters when deciding what to buy or support.
Trust is a decisive factor in purchase decisions.
Perceived “fakeness” is a fast track to disengagement.

When a prospect suspects they are being spoken at by a machine rather than with by a human, a subtle but important trust fracture forms. They may not leave a comment about it. They just quietly decide that you are not “their” brand.

This is why human written copy, with all its slightly imperfect edges, continues to outperform. It feels real. It sounds like someone who has actually lived a life.

In an age of AI generated “workslop” – endless, frictionless, identikit content – humanity has become a luxury feature.

Real is the new premium.

So What Now? AI For Efficiency, Humans For Conversion

Let us be clear: the answer is not to throw AI in the bin and go back to writing everything in a notebook by candlelight.

AI is brilliant at what it is brilliant at. The real power lies in using it properly.

The highest performing teams will not be the ones that replace copywriters with AI. They will be the ones that give copywriters intelligent tools and the strategic power to use them.

A healthy division of labour looks something like this:

Let AI handle:

Research and data gathering
Summarising long reports and transcripts
Generating rough outlines and first pass ideas
Drafting variations for testing
Repetitive, low risk, low nuance content

Let humans own:

Strategy, positioning, and narrative
Deep customer insight and voice of customer translation
Emotional tone, nuance, and ethical judgment
Storytelling, metaphor, and creative concept
Final conversion focused copy for ads, landing pages, emails, and key campaigns

One study summarised it neatly: AI tools can boost conversion rates significantly – but only when used in combination with human strategy.

On its own, AI is a productivity tool. In the hands of a thoughtful human, it becomes an amplification tool.

The Bottom Line: Stop Optimising For Volume, Start Investing In Understanding

If you are a founder or marketing lead, this is the uncomfortable truth:

You do not have a content problem.
You have an understanding problem.

You probably do not need more posts, more emails, more ads. You need sharper, more honest, more emotionally intelligent ones written by someone who deeply understands how your buyers think and feel.

So instead of asking:

“How can we produce more content with AI?”

Try asking:

“Where do my buyers feel misunderstood?”
“Where are we losing trust?”
“Where does our current copy feel generic, safe, or oddly ‘AIish’?”
“Where would a human story land harder than another polished paragraph?”

Then invest accordingly.

Invest in human copywriters who understand psychology as well as prose.
Invest in emotional intelligence inside your team.
Invest in fewer, smarter, more honest words
Invest in understanding your buyer at a level no model can reach.

Because at the end of the day, you are not trying to convert an algorithm. You are trying to reach a human being with fears, hopes, scars, and a budget.

The brands that remember this – and write like humans to humans, with AI in a supporting role rather than the lead – are the ones that will still be converting, long after the novelty of “AI generated everything” has worn off.

And if you would like help with that – with putting human psychology, empathy, and intelligent strategy back at the heart of your copy – that is the part I would not dream of outsourcing to a robot.

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